Beginning with God 4: My response (and Si’s too!)


What are the reasons we frame God as one whose favor must be earned? What has helped you get over and beyond the God’s-Favor-Must-Be-Earned God?

Wow. This is a hard one. I think the earning-favor mindset is very ingrained in our culture. We work to earn grades, which gives us favor in the eyes of our teachers and — hopefully — our fellow students. We work to earn paychecks so that we can have nice homes that — hopefully — earn us favor in the eyes of those who visit our homes. As children we complete the tasks on our chore lists or homework lists so that we can be in good graces with the life systems that surround us. We are very programmed by a life pattern in which we earn the good graces of those around us. When we cross the line, we are punished (temporary fall from favor) and when we “straighten up” then we are blessed by those good graces again.

Or at least that’s my experience. I grew up in a very performance-oriented environment. As adults, my friends and I called it the “Good Christians Win Football Games” experience. It took a long time for me to realize that God loved me whether I won or lost, did right or wrong, completed my to-do list or had items left over. His love wasn’t conditional on whether or not I had completed all of the steps adequately. It was just THERE no matter what I did.

And trust me. I messed up. I messed up big time more than once. Not only did I leave some “to-dos” undone, but I also went over to that other list of things NOT to do and crossed a few of those items off my list. It wasn’t pretty.

But you know what? I learned that God still loved me. He still held me in his arms, let me cry, and question, and weep, and I even threw things a couple of times. And he didn’t run away from me. He listened. He held me. He spoke to me and reminded me of the truth that I knew and had been avoiding.

He loves me. He limited himself by becoming human, lived on this earth with all of its garbage, then died for me. Not for generic humanity, but for me. Not because I’m special, but because he is. He loves you this much too. You don’t have to earn it, or stay in line to keep his favor. It’s just there. Beyond anything that you could ask or imagine.

PS — Don’t miss Si’s wonderful response in the comments section of the previous post. Thanks, Si!

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  1. Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love he predestined us for adoption as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has blessed us in the Beloved. – Ephesians 1:3*6

    For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them. – Ephesians 2:8, 9

    Our salvation is totally dependent upon the mercy of God. If it were not for his grace we would be in our deserved position of damnation. Ultimately our salvation is not about us, but about the glory of Almighty God.

    That is the source of our peace and joy.

    Aren't you glad!

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