What limiting beliefs are keeping me from engaging with creativity? How can I change my inner dialog and embrace my right to be creative?
Which ones do you want? Let’s start with the obvious one and go from there.
I’m not creative. I’m not artistic. I know what I like when I see it, but I don’t have creative ideas on my own. I don’t have time. My brain doesn’t work that way. Why do it if I’m not very good at it? ____________________________ is better at that than I am. I don’t want to make a mess.
I’m sure there are others, but that’s what comes to mind right now.
Write a permission slip. It’s time to get myself out of the way and get on with being creative.
It’s OK. It’s OK if you aren’t the best writer or singer or knitter. You can still write and sing and knit. It’s OK if you don’t have intricate amazing ideas; you still have ideas. It’s OK if you aren’t creative in every possible way — painting may not be your thing. Shoot, even coloring may not be your thing. Your creativity may come in your ability to problem solve, recommend books to other people, and show up on the mat every day. You don’t have to be the most creative to be creative. You don’t have to be the best at anything to show up and do what you can.
You have my total permission to be mediocre if you want to be. Just don’t be nothing, because you are worth much more than that. When words come to you, it’s because they have chosen you. There’s no supposed to in creativity. Your life will not end and no one will be homeless if you don’t turn out vast amounts of inspiring words or learn to knit socks. You can keep churning out scarves, blankets, and dishcloths all you want to.
It’s OK not to be the best. Just be.